My perspective on LIFE

 My perspective on LIFE

A four-lettered word with so many meanings to billions of people. To each his own. From being a childhood to an adult, we all think things differently at each stage of our life. A child has a whole poles-apart fantasy compared to a teenager. Our perspectives towards life may change even in a minute; that one incident has to take place and after that, your whole mind set will be changed which can be either good or evil.

Now when I give you two choices: self-respect or doing good deeds? What will you choose? Many people go for self-respect because they think their ego, self-esteem is too important. They are not able to handle insults, the phase where they have to face embarrassment, when people go to an extent and be extremely judgemental. Some people tend to stand up for themselves here by doing what? Giving back answers, hurting the other person by throwing them hurtful words orally. Man, what is the difference between you and that person?

Although, if you follow the latter choice, you don’t have the worry about what others say because you know such people have to pay for it some or the other day. Your job is to continue doing the good deeds and spread positivity around you! Being happy will not only benefit you but also your parents, who will be cherished to see you happy. This might also affect few people around you who would want to have positive energy around them. Not caring about what others say to you, will give you a stress-free life.

Try keeping a smile on your face no matter what! The more you smile, the more you will blossom in your life :)

        - Nishita Gurbani

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